Bump node version from 16 to 18 (#35443)

Summary:
Node 18: https://nodejs.org/de/blog/announcements/v18-release-announce/

Node 16 EOL: 2023-09-11
https://nodejs.org/en/blog/announcements/nodejs16-eol/

Node 18 EOL: 2025-04-30

Follow-up
- https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/34171
- https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/32980

Ref
- https://github.com/react-native-community/docker-android/pull/187

cc ramonmedel cortinico gengjiawen

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[JavaScript] [Changed] - Bump node version from 16 to 18

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/35443

Test Plan: Everything builds and runs as expected

Reviewed By: cipolleschi

Differential Revision: D41531161

Pulled By: cortinico

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