Fix core autolinking not working on Windows (#45572)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/45572

0.75-rc.5 is currently broken on Windows.

This is due to us invoking `npx react-native-community/cli config` without
a `cmd /c` prefix.

This fixes it by using our function `windowsAwareCommandLine`.
The problem is that this required a lot of refactoring since that util was not available for the settings plugin.

Fixes #45403

Changelog:
[Internal] [Changed] - Fix core autolinking not working on Windows

Reviewed By: cipolleschi

Differential Revision: D60037587

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