[DevTools] add support for HostSingleton & HostResource (#25616)

## Summary

This is to support two new reconciler work tags `HostSingleton` and
`HostResource` introduced in PRs #25243 #25426. The behavior is
described below.
I also renamed an option in components settings from an internal concept
"host" to more understood "dom nodes"

## How did you test this change?

Tested on the latest Vercel playground app
https://github.com/vercel/app-playground/

Before the change, devtools cannot show correct display name for these
new elements. Also, some unnecessary internal details are exposed to
users.
<img width="1395" alt="image"
src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/1001890/199578181-c4e4ea74-baa1-4507-83d0-91a62ad7de5f.png">

After the change, the display names are correctly shown and the "state"
would always be hidden in the detail view.
<img width="1417" alt="image"
src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/1001890/199578442-adc1951d-7d5b-4b84-ad64-85bcf7a8ebcc.png">

These elements will also be hidden just like other native dom elements
(e.g. `<div>`)
<img width="836" alt="image"
src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/1001890/199578598-2dfacf64-ddc9-42b5-a246-dd0b09f629af.png">