Add flag to test fast jsx (#28816)

Following #28768, add a path to testing Fast JSX on www.

We want to measure the impact of Fast JSX and enable a path to testing
before string refs are completely removed in www (which is a work in
progress).

Without `disableStringRefs`, we need to copy any object with a `ref` key
so we can pass it through `coerceStringRef()` and copy it into the
object. This de-opt path is what is gated behind
`enableFastJSXWithStringRefs`.

The additional checks should have no perf impact in OSS as the flags
remain true there and the build output is not changed. For www, I've
benchmarked the addition of the boolean checks with values cached at
module scope. There is no significant change observed from our
benchmarks and any latency will apply to test and control branches
evenly. This added experiment complexity is temporary. We should be able
to clean it up, along with the flag checks for `enableRefAsProp` and
`disableStringRefs` shortly.