[Compiler] Don't count a setState in the dependency array of the effect it is called on as a usage (#35134)

Summary:
The validation only allows setState declaration as a usage outside of
the effect.

Another edge case is that if you add the setState being validated in the
dependency array you also make the validation opt out since it counts as
a usage outside of the effect.

Added a bit of logic to consider the effect's deps when creating the
cache for setState usages within the effect

Test Plan:
Added a fixture

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