[compiler] Infer deps configuration (#31616)

Adds a way to configure how we insert deps for experimental purposes.

```
[
  {
    module: 'react',
    imported: 'useEffect',
    numRequiredArgs: 1,
  },
  {
    module: 'MyExperimentalEffectHooks',
    imported: 'useExperimentalEffect',
    numRequiredArgs: 2,
  },
]
```

would insert dependencies for calls of `useEffect` imported from `react`
if they have 1 argument and calls of useExperimentalEffect` from
`MyExperimentalEffectHooks` if they have 2 arguments. The pushed dep
array is appended to the arg list.