[Flight] Don't serialize toJSON in Debug path and omit wide arrays (#34759)

There's a couple of issues with serializing Buffer in the debug renders.

For one, the Node.js Buffer has a `toJSON` on it which turns the binary
data into a JSON array which is very inefficient to serialize compared
to the real buffer. For debug info we never really want to resolve these
and unlike the regular render we can't error. So this uses the trick
where we read the original value. It's still unfortunate that this
intermediate gets created at all but at least now we're not serializing
it.

Second, we have a limit on depth of objects but we didn't have a limit
on width like large arrays or typed arrays. This omits large arrays from
the payload when possible and make them deferred when there's a debug
channel.

DiffTrain build for [3025aa39649ef5106c34cc7896a63d63b2edee91](https://github.com/facebook/react/commit/3025aa39649ef5106c34cc7896a63d63b2edee91)