[Fizz] Enable the progressiveChunkSize option (#33027)

Since the very beginning we have had the `progressiveChunkSize` option
but we never actually took advantage of it because we didn't count the
bytes that we emitted. This starts counting the bytes by taking a pass
over the added chunks each time a segment completes.

That allows us to outline a Suspense boundary to stream in late even if
it is already loaded by the time that back-pressure flow and in a
`prerender`. Meaning it gets inserted with script.

The effect can be seen in the fixture where if you have large HTML
content that can block initial paint (thanks to
[`rel="expect"`](https://github.com/facebook/react/pull/33016) but also
nested Suspense boundaries). Before this fix, the paint would be blocked
until the large content loaded. This lets us paint the fallback first in
the case that the raw bytes of the content takes a while to download.

You can set it to `Infinity` to opt-out. E.g. if you want to ensure
there's never any scripts. It's always set to `Infinity` in
`renderToHTML` and the legacy `renderToString`.

One downside is that if we might choose to outline a boundary, we need
to let its fallback complete.

We don't currently discount the size of the fallback but really just
consider them additive even though in theory the fallback itself could
also add significant size or even more than the content. It should maybe
really be considered the delta but that would require us to track the
size of the fallback separately which is tricky.

One problem with the current heuristic is that we just consider the size
of the boundary content itself down to the next boundary. If you have a
lot of small boundaries adding up, it'll never kick in. I intend to
address that in a follow up.