[Flight] When halting omit any reference rather than refer to a shared missing chunk (#30750)

When aborting a prerender we should leave references unfulfilled, not
share a common unfullfilled reference. functionally today this doesn't
matter because we don't have resuming but the semantic is that the row
was not available when the abort happened and in a resume the row should
fill in. But by pointing each task to a common unfulfilled chunk we lose
the ability for these references to resolves to distinct values on
resume.