[compiler]: add `@tanstack/react-virtual` to known incompatible libraries (#34493)

Replaces #31820. #34027 added a check for `@tanstack/react-table`, but
not `@tanstack/react-virtual`.
In our testing `@tanstack/react-virtual`'s `useVirtualizer` returns
functions that cannot be memoized, [this is also documented in the
community](https://github.com/TanStack/virtual/issues/736#issuecomment-3065658277).

DiffTrain build for [e12b0bdc3b976cc2431ccf30126cf339be83720c](https://github.com/facebook/react/commit/e12b0bdc3b976cc2431ccf30126cf339be83720c)