[compiler] Improve error message for mutating hook args/return (#33513)

The previous error message was generic, because the old style function
signature didn't support a way to specify a reason alongside a freeze
effect. This meant we could only say why a value was frozen for
instructions, but not hooks which use function signatures. By defining a
new aliasing signature for custom hooks we can specify a reason and
provide a better error message.

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