[DevTools] Don't capture durations for disconnected subtrees when profiling (#35718)

After https://github.com/facebook/react/pull/34089, when updating
(possibly, mounting) inside disconnected subtree, we don't record this
as an operation. This only happens during reconnect. The issue is that
`recordProfilingDurations()` can be called, which diffs tree base
duration and reports it to the Frontend:

https://github.com/facebook/react/blob/65db1000b944c8a07b5947c06b38eb8364dce4f2/packages/react-devtools-shared/src/backend/fiber/renderer.js#L4506-L4521

This operation can be recorded before the "Add" operation, and it will
not be resolved properly on the Frontend side.

Before the fix:
```
commit tree › Suspense › should handle transitioning from fallback back to content during profiling

    Could not clone the node: commit tree does not contain fiber "5". This is a bug in React DevTools.

      162 |     const existingNode = nodes.get(id);
      163 |     if (existingNode == null) {
    > 164 |       throw new Error(
          |             ^
      165 |         `Could not clone the node: commit tree does not contain fiber "${id}". This is a bug in React DevTools.`,
      166 |       );
      167 |     }

      at getClonedNode (packages/react-devtools-shared/src/devtools/views/Profiler/CommitTreeBuilder.js:164:13)
      at updateTree (packages/react-devtools-shared/src/devtools/views/Profiler/CommitTreeBuilder.js:348:24)
      at getCommitTree (packages/react-devtools-shared/src/devtools/views/Profiler/CommitTreeBuilder.js:112:20)
      at ProfilingCache.getCommitTree (packages/react-devtools-shared/src/devtools/ProfilingCache.js:40:46)
      at Object.<anonymous> (packages/react-devtools-shared/src/__tests__/profilingCommitTreeBuilder-test.js:257:44)
```