[compiler] Allow nonreactive stable types as extraneous deps (#35185)

When checking ValidateExhaustiveDeps internally, this seems to be the
most common case that it flags. The current exhaustive-deps rule allows
extraneous deps if they are a set of stable types. So here we reuse our
existing isStableType() util in the compiler to allow this case.

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* #35186
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