hexagon: optimization for HMX mat_mul (#21554)

* hexagon: add async HMX worker

Introduce hmx-worker (dedicated thread for HMX compute) to overlap HMX
matmul with HVX dequant/DMA stages in the pipeline path, replacing the
previous synchronous HMX calls that blocked the main thread.

* hexagon: cost-based VTCM chunk search for out-stationary matmul

* hexagon: fix futex race in hmx_worker_drain
Store the boolean to local variable avoid atomic load twice

* hex-mm: hmx optimize scatter/transpose and use HMX intrinsics

* hex-vmem: drop vmem limit a touch under 3GB on v73

* hexagon: add fwd declaration of htp_context

* hex-hmx: replace hmx-worker with hmx-queue that mimics dma-queue interface

Simplifies the overall implemantion, reduces thread wakeup roundtrips.

* hex-mm: add debug log to hmx work func called from hmx-queue

* Update hmx-queue.h

Co-authored-by: Max Krasnyansky <max.krasnyansky@gmail.com>

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Co-authored-by: Kim-Chyan Gan <kgan@qti.qualcomm.com>
Co-authored-by: Max Krasnyansky <maxk@qti.qualcomm.com>
Co-authored-by: Max Krasnyansky <max.krasnyansky@gmail.com>