build: skip linkLibCpp on MSVC targets

Zig's bundled libc++/libc++abi conflicts with the MSVC C++ runtime
headers (vcruntime_typeinfo.h, vcruntime_exception.h, etc.) when
targeting native-native-msvc. This caused compilation failures in
the SIMD C++ code due to -nostdinc++ suppressing MSVC headers and
libc++ types clashing with MSVC runtime types.

Skip linkLibCpp() for MSVC targets across all packages (highway,
simdutf, utfcpp) and the main build (SharedDeps, GhosttyZig) since
MSVC provides its own C++ standard library natively. Also add
missing <iterator> and <cstddef> includes that were previously
pulled in transitively through libc++ headers but are not
guaranteed by MSVC's headers.