[Inference/Kernel] Optimize paged attention: Refactor key cache layout (#5643)

* optimize flashdecodingattention: refactor code with different key cache layout(from [num_blocks, num_kv_heads, block_size, head_size] to [num_blocks, num_kv_heads, head_size/x, block_size, x])

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