feat(picker-column): add styles, disabled and active states (#28621)

Issue number: Internal

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## What is the current behavior?
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We'd like to introduce a new API to the picker column to allow
developers to manipulate the picker options right in the DOM. Currently
developers need to pass an object which is quite cumbersome as you need
to re-pass that object anytime you want to change a single option.

## What is the new behavior?
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This PR does some of the prep work to make integrating the picker column
option into picker column easier. It does the following things:

1. Copies the base button styles from picker-column over to
picker-column-option
2. Creates active and disabled states (plus styles)
3. Add tests for base styles

Note: There are duplicate styles across picker-column and
picker-column-option that will be cleaned up once picker-column-option
is integrated and shown to be functional.

## Does this introduce a breaking change?

- [ ] Yes
- [x] No

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Co-authored-by: ionitron <hi@ionicframework.com>