CmdPal: init Details in a slow pass; add more winget logs (#41425)

Related to #41384

We should load the `IDetails` from a `IListItem` in the slow pass,
instead of immediately when we load the list of items.

see also #39215

Also adds a lot of logging on our side, which helped ID that it isn't
our fault that the winget APIs are returning slowly. That's tracked
upstream (somewhere)