chore: update to electron 30 (#215406)

* chore: update [email protected]

* chore: update rpm deps

* chore: bump [email protected]

* fix: update kerberos for Node.js 20.x

Refs https://github.com/mongodb-js/kerberos/commit/c1f7acafb211d1b449086433578495d4ae0b869f

* fix: use shell when spawning .bat or .cmd files

Refs https://github.com/nodejs/node/commit/6627222409

* fix: update @vscode/[email protected]

Refs https://github.com/microsoft/vscode-test/commit/3f7a3cc5c537957d55fa9e6aeab9d860f7a60078

* fixup! use shell when spawning .bat or .cmd files

* chore: bump [email protected] internal build

* ci: skip nodejsMirror for 20.14.0 due to missing builds

* fixup! use shell when spawning .bat or .cmd files

* chore: update debian deps

* fixup! skip nodejsMirror for 20.14.0 due to missing builds

* fix: universal build

- Updates vscode-universal-bundler to support x64ArchFiles option
- Kerberos starts building universal binaries which should now be
  skipped from lipo step via x64ArchFiles
- Skips bundling *.mk files

* chore: bump distro