chore: update to Electron 22 (#166430)

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* chore: bump [email protected]

* chore: update libc++ flags

* chore: switch to c++17

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* chore: cleanup build config for linux

* chore: update debian dependencies

* chore: update rpm dependencies

* chore: update [email protected]

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* chore: remove deprecated utility process invoker

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* chore: remove unused methods

* chore: update internal electron version

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* temp: update electron with default PGO

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* cleanup

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Co-authored-by: Benjamin Pasero <[email protected]>