chore: update to electron 13 (#124666)

* chore: bump electron@13.0.1

* chore: update cache for native modules

* chore: bump electron@13.1.2

* chore: bump electron@13.1.4

* chore: fix user data dir length for validateIPCHandleLength check

* chore: always disable uploadToServer on OSS

* chore: use process.contextIsolated property

* chore: bump electron@13.1.6

* fix: getUserDataPath helper