chore: revert to electron@13 (#143851)

* Revert "chore: update to electron 16 (#137241)"

This reverts commit 01df559c184549248fcfbcecc5a616462e00c252.
This reverts commit 46301339b71e7f99187edd262b809e8788bcb358

* ci: fix remote compiler for sdl-scan

* chore: fix remote/.yarnrc

* chore: fix build/npm/postinstall.js

* chore: rm crash reporter from shared process

* chore: rm crash reporter from ext host

* chore: fix build/lib/layersChecker.ts

* :chore: preserve some more changes

* fix tests

Co-authored-by: Benjamin Pasero <[email protected]>