chore: update to Electron 39 (#275786)

* chore: bump [email protected]

* chore: update build

* chore: bump distro

* chore: update debian deps

* chore: exclude dlls from symbol scan

* chore: test with patch v8 headers

* chore: bump rpm dependencies

* chore: cleanup preinstall.js

* chore: bump [email protected]

* chore: remove unsupported FontationsLinuxSystemFonts feature flag

* chore: bump [email protected]

* chore: update nodejs build

* temp: update distro

* ci: fix location of preinstall invocation

* chore: bump distro