fix[react-devtools/extensions]: fixed tabs API calls and displaying restricted access popup (#30825)

Stacked on https://github.com/facebook/react/pull/30824. See [this
commit](https://github.com/facebook/react/pull/30825/commits/c9830d64749cf8fd592ea30a1cd65842cf83f6df).

Turns out we should be listing `tabs` in our permissions, if we want to
be able to receive tab url, once its updated.
This also fixes `chrome.tabs.onCreated` event subscription, because [it
should receive only tab
object](https://developer.chrome.com/docs/extensions/reference/api/tabs#event-onCreated),
and not 3 arguments, as expected in the previous implementation.