[Flight] Add Separate Outgoing Debug Channel (#33754)

This lets us pass a writable on the server side and readable on the
client side to send debug info through a separate channel so that it
doesn't interfere with the main payload as much. The main payload refers
to chunks defined in the debug info which means it's still blocked on it
though. This ensures that the debug data has loaded by the time the
value is rendered so that the next step can forward the data.

This will be a bit fragile to race conditions until #33665 lands.
Another follow up needed is the ability to skip the debug channel on the
receiving side. Right now it'll block forever if you don't provide one
since we're blocking on the debug data.