[compiler] Prune all unused array destructure items during DCE (#31619)

We didn't originally support holes within array patterns, so DCE was
only able to prune unused items from the end of an array pattern. Now
that we support holes we can replace any unused item with a hole, and
then just prune the items to the last identifier/spread entry.

Note: this was motivated by finding useState where either the state or
setState go unused — both are strong indications that you're violating
the rules in some way. By DCE-ing the unused portions of the useState
destructuring we can easily check if you're ignoring either value.

closes #31603 

This is a redo of that PR not using ghstack