fix(openai): stop streaming tool-call double-emission when autoparser is active (#10055)

Streaming /v1/chat/completions could emit the same logical tool call at
multiple `index` values. In processStreamWithTools the Go-side iterative
parser (ParseXMLIterative / ParseJSONIterative) runs on every token and
emits tool-call deltas, while the C++ chat-template autoparser delivers
its own tool calls via ChatDeltas that are flushed at end-of-stream by
ToolCallsFromChatDeltas -> buildDeferredToolCallChunks. With both paths
active the same call is emitted twice at different indices, so OpenAI
clients that accumulate tool calls by `index` dispatch the tool N times.

Skip the Go-side iterative parser once the autoparser is producing tool
calls (hasChatDeltaToolCalls). The deferred flush stays guarded by
lastEmittedCount, so the race where the Go parser emitted before the flag
flipped also remains single-emission. Backends without an autoparser
(e.g. vLLM) keep hasChatDeltaToolCalls=false and are unaffected.

Refs #9722

Signed-off-by: bozhouDev <259759010+bozhouDev@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: bozhouDev <259759010+bozhouDev@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>