Add macros NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT and ..._NON_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT (#3143)

* Added new macros NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT and NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_NON_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT.

* Updated docs for NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT and NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_NON_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT accordingly

* Rephrased docs for NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT and NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_NON_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT

* Updated docs for NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT and NLOHMANN_DEFINE_TYPE_NON_INTRUSIVE_WITH_DEFAULT

* Renamed default_obj in to avoid name clashes

* Added test for serialization of default constructed object

* Add const to getters for macro tests

Co-authored-by: Chaoya Li <harry75369@gmail.com>