libobs: Do not use signals with audio capture/controls

(Note: This commit also modifies UI)

Instead of using signals, use designated callback lists for audio
capture and audio control helpers.  Signals aren't suitable here due to
the fact that signals aren't meant for things that happen every frame or
things that happen every time audio/video is received.  Also prevents
audio from being allocated every time these functions are called due to
the calldata structure.