Update `cc_file_list_aspect` to handle targets with missing `hdrs/textual_hdrs`

Our stale file regeneration logic broke with Bazel 6.4.0, and I suspect it was
caused by this change: https://github.com/bazelbuild/bazel/pull/19534 Our logic
assumed that any target with a `CcInfo` provider must have `hdrs` and
`textual_hdrs` attributes, but it seems that this is no longer true for
`cc_proto_library` starting with Bazel 6.4.0. The fix is just to use `getattr`
and treat the item as an empty list if it's missing.

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