gh-89022: Improve sqlite3 exceptions related to binding params and API misuse (#91572)

* Map SQLITE_MISUSE to sqlite3.InterfaceError

SQLITE_MISUSE implies misuse of the SQLite C API, which, if it happens,
is _not_ a user error; it is an sqlite3 extension module error.

* Raise better errors when binding parameters fail.

Instead of always raising InterfaceError, guessing what went wrong,
raise accurate exceptions with more accurate error messages.