[3.10] bpo-45461: Fix IncrementalDecoder and StreamReader in the "unicode-escape" codec (GH-28939) (GH-28943)

They support now splitting escape sequences between input chunks.

Add the third parameter "final" in codecs.unicode_escape_decode().
It is True by default to match the former behavior.
(cherry picked from commit c96d1546b11b4c282a7e21737cb1f5d16349656d)

Co-authored-by: Serhiy Storchaka <storchaka@gmail.com>