[3.13] gh-120522: Add a `--with-app-store-compliance` configure option to patch out problematic code (GH-120984) (#121173)

gh-120522: Add a `--with-app-store-compliance` configure option to patch out problematic code (GH-120984)

* Add --app-store-compliance configuration option.

* Added blurb.

* Correct tab-vs-spaces formatting issue.

* Correct source file name in docs.



* Correct source code reference in Mac docs



* Only apply the patch forward, and ensure the working directory is correct.

* Make patching reslient to multiple builds.

* Documentation fixes found during review



* Documentation and configure.ac syntax improvements



* Regenerate configure script.

* Silence the patch echo output.

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(cherry picked from commit 48cd104b0cf05dad8958efa9cb9666c029ef9201)

Co-authored-by: Russell Keith-Magee <russell@keith-magee.com>
Co-authored-by: Nice Zombies <nineteendo19d0@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Alyssa Coghlan <ncoghlan@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Erlend E. Aasland <erlend.aasland@protonmail.com>