[3.12] gh-116810: fix memory leak in ssl module (GH-123249) (GH-124801)

gh-116810: fix memory leak in ssl module (GH-123249)

Resolve a memory leak introduced in CPython 3.10's :mod:`ssl` when the :attr:`ssl.SSLSocket.session` property was accessed. Speeds up read and write access to said property by no longer unnecessarily cloning session objects via serialization.

(cherry picked from commit 7e7223e18f58ec48fb36a68fb75b5c5b7a45042a)

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Co-authored-by: Antoine Pitrou <antoine@python.org>