gh-130567: Remove optimistic allocation in locale.strxfrm() (GH-137143)

On modern systems, the result of wcsxfrm() is much larger the size of
the input string (from 4+2*n on Windows to 4+5*n on Linux for simple
ASCII strings), so optimistic allocation of the buffer of the same size
never works.

The exception is if the locale is "C" (or unset), but in that case the `wcsxfrm`
call should be fast (and calling `locale.strxfrm()` doesn't make too much
sense in the first place).