bpo-36389: _PyObject_IsFreed() now also detects uninitialized memory (GH-12770)

Replace _PyMem_IsFreed() function with _PyMem_IsPtrFreed() inline
function. The function is now way more efficient, it became a simple
comparison on integers, rather than a short loop. It detects also
uninitialized bytes and "forbidden bytes" filled by debug hooks
on memory allocators.

Add unit tests on _PyObject_IsFreed().