gh-116099: Fix refcounting bug in `_queueobj_shared()` (gh-116164)

This code decrefs `qidobj` twice in some paths. Since `qidobj` isn't used after
the first `Py_DECREF()`, remove the others, and replace the `Py_DECREF()` with
`Py_CLEAR()` to make it clear that the variable is dead.

With this fix, `python -mtest test_interpreters -R 3:3 -mtest_queues` no longer
fails with `_Py_NegativeRefcount: Assertion failed: object has negative ref
count`.