[3.13] gh-143637: Fix re-entrant mutation of ancillary data in socket.sendmsg() (GH-143892) (#144785)

gh-143637: Fix re-entrant mutation of ancillary data in socket.sendmsg() (GH-143892)
(cherry picked from commit 82b92e3cd180723a354cdeb0f0f1d593f1b5eb0d)

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