gh-124218: Avoid refcount contention on builtins module (GH-125847)

This replaces `_PyEval_BuiltinsFromGlobals` with
`_PyDict_LoadBuiltinsFromGlobals`, which returns a new reference
instead of a borrowed reference. Internally, the new function uses
per-thread reference counting when possible to avoid contention on the
refcount fields on the builtins module.