bpo-40645: Implement HMAC in C (GH-20129)

The internal module ``_hashlib`` wraps and exposes OpenSSL's HMAC API. The
new code will be used in Python 3.10 after the internal implementation
details of the pure Python HMAC module are no longer part of the public API.

The code is based on a patch by Petr Viktorin for RHEL and Python 3.6.

Co-Authored-By: Petr Viktorin <encukou@gmail.com>