[3.13] gh-120522: Apply App Store compliance patch during installation (GH-121947) (#122105)

gh-120522: Apply App Store compliance patch during installation (GH-121947)

Adds a --with-app-store-compliance configuration option that patches out code known to be an issue with App Store review processes. This option is applied automatically on iOS, and optionally on macOS.
(cherry picked from commit 728432c8043edc07bb8a24b180a70778fcd35878)

Co-authored-by: Russell Keith-Magee <russell@keith-magee.com>