bpo-40609: _Py_hashtable_t values become void* (GH-20065)

_Py_hashtable_t values become regular "void *" pointers.

* Add _Py_hashtable_entry_t.data member
* Remove _Py_hashtable_t.data_size member
* Remove _Py_hashtable_t.get_func member. It is no longer needed
  to specialize _Py_hashtable_get() for a specific value size, since
  all entries now have the same size (void*).
* Remove the following macros:

  * _Py_HASHTABLE_GET()
  * _Py_HASHTABLE_SET()
  * _Py_HASHTABLE_SET_NODATA()
  * _Py_HASHTABLE_POP()

* Rename _Py_hashtable_pop() to _Py_hashtable_steal()
* _Py_hashtable_foreach() callback now gets key and value rather than
  entry.
* Remove _Py_hashtable_value_destroy_func type. value_destroy_func
  callback now only has a single parameter: data (void*).