[3.11] gh-95132: Correctly relay *args and **kwds from sqlite3.connect to factory (GH-95146) (#95158)

This PR partially reverts gh-24421 (PR) and fixes the remaining concerns
given in gh-93044 (issue):

- keyword arguments are passed as positional arguments to factory()
- if an argument is not passed to sqlite3.connect(), its default value
  is passed to factory()

Co-authored-by: Serhiy Storchaka <storchaka@gmail.com>.
(cherry picked from commit a3d4d15f53777662ce0957500e5a538ce7161f5e)

Co-authored-by: Erlend Egeberg Aasland <erlend.aasland@innova.no>