[3.12] gh-109991: Update GitHub CI workflows to use OpenSSL 3.0.13. (GH-115055)

Also update multissltests to use 1.1.1w, 3.0.13, 3.1.5, and 3.2.1.
(cherry picked from commit 299e16ca0f303a1e00bd0e04679862a5d4db5ab2)

Co-authored-by: Ned Deily <nad@python.org>