gen_iternext(): repair subtle refcount problem.

NeilS, please check!  This came from staring at your genbug.py, but I'm
not sure it plugs all possible holes.  Without this, I caught a
frameobject refcount going negative, and it was also the cause (in debug
build) of _Py_ForgetReference's attempt to forget an object with already-
NULL _ob_prev and _ob_next pointers -- although I'm still not entirely
sure how!  Part of the difficulty is that frameobjects are stored on a
free list that gets recycled very quickly, so if there's a stray pointer
to one of them it never looks like an insane frameobject (never goes
trough the free() mangling MS debug forces, etc).