gh-102356: Add thrashcan macros to filter object dealloc (GH-102426)

Add thrashcan macros to the deallocator of the filter objects to protect against deeply nested destruction of chains of nested filters.
(cherry picked from commit 66aa78cbe604a7c5731f074b869f92174a8e3b64)

Co-authored-by: Marta Gómez Macías <mgmacias@google.com>