bpo-39877: _PyRuntimeState.finalizing becomes atomic (GH-18816)

Convert _PyRuntimeState.finalizing field to an atomic variable:

* Rename it to _finalizing
* Change its type to _Py_atomic_address
* Add _PyRuntimeState_GetFinalizing() and _PyRuntimeState_SetFinalizing()
  functions
* Remove _Py_CURRENTLY_FINALIZING() function: replace it with testing
  directly _PyRuntimeState_GetFinalizing() value

Convert _PyRuntimeState_GetThreadState() to static inline function.