[3.10] gh-89452: GHA: Set --with-dbmliborder to avoid issues with homebrew's gdbm 1.24 (#125112)

Per https://github.com/python/cpython/issues/89452#issuecomment-1116329316,
the issue is fixed in configure for 3.11+, and

> For older Python versions, the workaround is to build with:
>
>     ./configure --with-dbmliborder=gdbm:ndbm

We need this workaround in GitHub Actions, otherwise the tests fail.