gh-76785: Minor Cleanup of "Cross-interpreter" Code (gh-126457)

The primary objective here is to allow some later changes to be cleaner. Mostly this involves renaming things and moving a few things around.

* CrossInterpreterData -> XIData
* crossinterpdatafunc -> xidatafunc
* split out pycore_crossinterp_data_registry.h
* add _PyXIData_lookup_t