bpo-41877: Improve docs for assert misspellings check in mock (GH-23729)

This is a follow-up to
https://github.com/python/cpython/commit/4662fa9bfe4a849fe87bfb321d8ef0956c89a772.
That original commit expanded guards against misspelling assertions on
mocks. This follow-up updates the documentation and improves the error
message by pointing out the potential cause and solution.

Automerge-Triggered-By: GH:gpshead